How to Raise AWESOME Money on Kickstarter

When I worked at GoErie.com, I worked on content generation, including expanding our online video offerings.

Using my iPhone4 and a ragtag kit of mobile equipment, I was a one-woman band, and shot, interviewed, edited, voiced, and produced videos.

The Kickstarter success of the Glif

The Kickstarter success of the Glif

I sucked at first, but in the process of learning and making lots of videos, produced some content I could be really proud of.

The secret to our success? The brilliant little piece of plastic that allowed me to connect my iPhone4 to the tripod stand. Thanks to my boss, who found and ordered it online. Its name?

The glif.

(Not to be confused with gilf.)

Here is their studio page.

A quick type into the Google search bar, and you find “glif…” and Kickstarter becomes one of the options. Apparently, they had an awesome run, and there’s a few blogs, including Kickstarter and their own, that tell how they did it.

They offer lots of great advice, including on making a great Kickstarter video.

 

My best advice: do lots of takes. And take a couple whiskey shots.

 

Worth a look, especially if you’re wondering how to get your own products/projects off the ground.

 

The purpose of this piece is two-fold: to give an inside look at our creative process, and to offer guidance and inspiration for those who have their own ideas they’d like to see brought to reality.

 

They initially asked for $10,000, and came away with $137,417 in funding after their campaign.

What would you create if you had that much funding? Ever try a Kickstarter campaign? Tell me about it @GinnyTonkin.

When You’re Going Through Hell, Keep Going

I debated a long time whether to share this post. Would I come off as weak? Too vulnerable? Incapable of handling the inconsistencies and waves that come with life?

Well, this kind of thinking is actually just rubbish. The fact is that most people deal with overwhelming life challenges, and it’s our capacity to weather and learn from these experiences that help us grow, form us into the people we want to become, and in turn allow us to help others.

I decided to post, to process my own thoughts, to express gratitude to those who have supported me, and also to support others going through similar challenges. If you’re a stranger reading this on the Internet, know that countless others go through really confusing, crappy times, and that you’re going to come out of this stronger.

In the end, I’m actually grateful for it. I’m stronger, wiser. More compassionate with myself and others.

I’m also grateful and very lucky that I’ve had a super supportive workplace and boss, a patient and loving family, and friends both near and far that have helped me through this process.

What is going on? Explain plz already.

For more than half a year, I’ve been dealing with challenging health issues that were varied and complex. Without going into extreme detail, issues ranging from throat infections, a surgery, and a stomach that refused to process anything, left me, a normally buoyant and energetic person, exhausted both physically and emotionally. It was hard for me to go out without feeling exhausted, which made me even more sad, isolated, and frustrated.

On top of this, old and new running injuries flared up, limiting the ways I could exercise and even my general mobility for a while.

In short, I was a wreck.

I’ve always seen myself as a fairly “tough, strong” person. I’m proud (possibly too proud) that I’ve been able to live and travel abroad in multiple foreign countries by myself, without family or much of a safety net. I’ve done athletic and endurance races, including a triathlon, a vertical run, and a half marathon. Even when an old employer called me tough, looking to criticize my character, I took it on as a mantle of courage and defiance. When others are down or sick, I’ve been happy and proud to be able to take care of them.

But when I’m personally feeling unwell, whatever “toughness” I have just falls apart. Being sick sucks.

This is what I felt like for several months, not completely healing after a surgery, not understanding what was going wrong with me physically, and not having the right, consistent medical support to figure it out. Would I ever heal completely? Would I ever feel “normal” again?

It’s very challenging NOT to feel like a victim when everything feels out of your control.

But, “When you’re going through Hell, keep going.”

When you're going through Hell, keep going.

When you’re going through Hell, keep going.

This Winston Churchill quote has been one of the best pieces of advice I’ve received, from a guy who’s been there, my father. A renal patient for over 12 years and now a kidney transplant recipient, my dad has been through more “Hell” than I think any person should have to deal with. But you know what? He’s one of the most compassionate, funny, mentally strong people I know, and has been an excellent support and example while I’ve been sick.

How do we “keep going” when we don’t see a way out of “Hell?”

These are a few things that have been particularly useful to me. I don’t do all of these very well all the time, but each day is a chance to improve.

1. Cultivate a “Warrior Vs. Victim” Mentality

This blog post was particularly helpful when I realized I was wallowing too much in self-pity (heyyy, we’ve all been there, ya?). Why is this happening to me? Didn’t I already live a healthy life? Aren’t I a “good” person? What have I done to “deserve” this?

Being a victim can mean feeling helpless, but a way to combat that feeling is to change your perception.

I loved the “how-to” list blogger Jenny Sansouci posted about how to strengthen your “warrior mindset:”

  • Make self-care your primary function.
  • Remember to ask for help. Find your personal team of healers – maybe it’s your friends & family, a therapist, support group, yoga instructor, spiritual practice, chiropractor, juicer, etc.
  • Find ways that working through your own situation can help others, and help someone.
  • Say to yourself, “this may be uncomfortable, but I know it’s a radical assignment for growth.”

I loved the idea that, “Things may not always be easy, but the choice we do have at each second is to be willing to see things differently.” –This is what having the warrior mentality is all about.

I also loved the idea that by working through your own pain, you could also be helping others. Be excellent to each other–each interaction is a chance to help someone else. At the same, don’t be afraid to put yourself first–it’s ok to be a little selfish to help you get better. This is your own health we’re talking about here.

2. Express Gratitude

This used to bug me whenever someone told me I needed to count my blessings or express more gratitude. Wasn’t I already a grateful enough person damnit?? …Ok, point taken.

It wasn’t until I was the phone with a good girlfriend of mine, and she suggested that I try being more grateful that I actually took it seriously. Sometimes when we’ve heard something so many times, it takes hearing it from an unexpected source to make an impact.

How can we be grateful? Instead of the generic advice, “be more grateful,” it’s been helpful for me to take a look at specific exercises, and these two things are particularly helpful:

  1. Write three things you are grateful for everyday. What I do (when I actually do it), is list in my journal at least three things that happened to me today that I was grateful for. Sometimes, it’s easier to list three people that you’re happy to have in your life, or three people that impacted your day positively.
  2. Write an email or card to someone to say thanks. This one is always fun. Take time out of your day to write an email or color a thank you card to give to a friend or someone who’s made an impact in your life. Because it’s often unexpected, both you and the recipient gain the benefit of feeling loved and grateful.

Sometimes, it’s more powerful to talk through your gratitudes–these exercises also work well with a friend in person or over the phone.

3. Recognize progress, no matter how small

When everything is going wrong, it’s hard to recognize when things are going right. When speaking with my doctor about my condition, she emphasized the importance of taking a step back. What’s the overall trend? Am I healthier today than I was last week? A month ago? Three months ago?

Some days will be better than others; some days will feel like major set backs. Recognize your own progress. Celebrate it, no matter how small.

At one point, even yoga was physically taxing for me. Each morning I started doing a yoga video, and I could feel myself getting stronger. I celebrated the strength I could feel in my legs, the flexibility returning to my body, the power in my arms to support myself.

Whatever progress you’re making, recognize and celebrate it. You’re getting there.

4. Be gentle with yourself

One of my favorite quotes is from that American movie classic, Bill & Ted’s Excellent Adventure, “Be excellent to each other.” What I needed to know at the time, is that I needed to return that favor to myself, to “be excellent”–and not so hard–on myself.

While I’ve always been proud of being able to support friends and others when they are dealing with physical and emotional challenges, sometimes, we need to turn that attention inward and channel that energy into self-care and self-love.

Maybe you missed a personal goal. Maybe today was just the pits. Maybe you see others killin’ it on social media, and you just don’t think your life adds up.

Do not compare yourself. Do not compare others. Each person’s life and situations are unique.

When you’re used to excelling, rising to the challenge, and exceeding expectations, this can admittedly be harder, as you put too much pressure on yourself to “normalize” the situation. When you’re used to “toughing it out,” it can be hard to recognize that the remedy will come with time and patience.

If you catch yourself thinking less-than-supportive thoughts about yourself, think about how you would speak to a friend. Would you say those things to them? To your younger brother or sister? What would you say to your best friend going through the same situation? You would be supportive. You would be loving. You would be forgiving.

One time, I wrote myself an email in the same way I would speak to a friend. The effect was immediate and positive. Be excellent to yourself.

5. Forgive

This one is admittedly my hardest. I know my being sick affected relationships I was in, and I was holding onto some hard feelings that didn’t do anyone any favors.

Your physical health is tied to your emotional and mental health.

Let it go. Even when you feel wronged, righteous, or justified, let it go.

I’ll leave you with a story a friend shared with me about grief. While I’m not sure where the story originally came from, when you’re going through Hell, it’s helpful to know that “Scars are a testament to life.

The two things that stuck most with me were:

  1. “Scar tissue is stronger than the original flesh ever was.”
  2. “The waves never stop coming, and somehow you don’t really want them to.”

I’m not completely out of Hell, but I’m well on my way. Life will always be filled with challenges. But it’s the way we respond, weather, and grow from these experiences that help shape our character. Be brave and be kind.

TIME’s “Pittsburgh: The Comeback,” a good example of sponsored content, though lacking in diversity

In an era where Buzzfeed’s clickbait listicles fund investigatory journalism, it can take being a little creative to find revenue sources for good content.

While sponsored and paid-for content are nothing new, finding well-crafted, actually interesting pieces can leave slim pickings.

I wanted to share a recent discovery from TIME magazine—a visually captivating video, produced by TIME, funded by Siemens.

Pittsburgh: The Comeback

Pittsburgh: The Comeback

Op-ed writer C. Matthew Hawkins describes the video well, “Time Magazine’s ‘Pittsburgh’s Comeback’ video is a striking piece of work that romanticizes Pittsburgh’s potential niche in the so-called ‘New Economy.’” (He later dissects it, however, which I discuss below.) This video and additional content surrounding Pittsburgh as a comeback city, are featured on a unique URL: http://time.com/pittsburgh/.

What’s in it for Siemens?
Pittsburgh’s resurgence and strength in “eds and meds” lines up perfectly with Siemens’ principle activities, including Industry, Energy, Healthcare, and Infrastructure & Cities. Siemens wins because Pittsburgh’s growing energy and excitement line up with Siemens’ own corporate positioning.

The video is advertised in the top header, linking to TIME‘s Pittsburgh url.

Pittsburgh: The Comeback

Pittsburgh: The Comeback

Quick Look: TIME’s “Pittsburgh” Sponsored Content by Siemens

  • Unique URL: http://time.com/pittsburgh/
  • 10 min video, sponsor video (Pittsburgh-centric)
  • More TIME video content, “Snake robot” video, also created at Pittsburgh’s Carnegie Melon University (Pittsburgh-centric)
  • Photo gallery of Pittsburgh at bottom (Pittsburgh-centric)

A tale of caution—Online feedback:

While the video got a lot of celebratory feedback from local outlets, including those organizations that featured interviewees, users on Twitter pushed back, highlighting the video’s lack of diversity—the video only interviews white men over the age of 40.

TIME video on Pittsburgh’s Comeback getting strong reaction for its lack of diversity

Why Blacks are not part of the vision of a Pittsburgh “comeback”

While this piece is a great example of sponsored content, TIME’s “Red Border Insights”—the internal group that produces TIME’s videos—have been well-informed by the community that they wish to see more diversity reflected in future pieces.

As quoted in Next Pittsburgh, Stephan Bontrager writes,

However there is not a single woman or person of color or person under the age of 40 interviewed in this video. I have tremendous respect for many of the interviewees but every. Single. One. is an older white man. I realize this was probably the fault of the videographers and who they selected to interview/show, but dudes on camera, couldn’t you have recommended that they talk to some of your minority peers for this piece? Or rising leaders from a different generation who will appeal to those younger folks looking to move here?

If we are serious about the future of this city and making it livable for everyone, inclusion and representation and diverse voices MATTER. If your list of people to interview only includes a certain sub-segment of this town, you need to make your list longer.”

C. Matthew Hawkins writes in the New Pittsburgh Courier that the problem is actually rooted in the city of Pittsburgh itself,

“Although Blacks are well represented in sports and entertainment, when it comes to diversity within the leadership of financial, medical and technological activity the City of Pittsburgh is stunningly deficient….

To me the problem is not so much the lack of diversity reflected in the videos, but it is in the blasé attitude with which many Pittsburgher’s approach this lack of diversity. The problem is that Pittsburgher’s don’t even see their own lack of diversity and inclusion, even though it is plainly evident to any outsider.

If one doesn’t see the problem then one should forget about the prospects for finding solutions. Changes in Pittsburgh’s key institutions, to develop untapped human potential, will not be forthcoming.”

Overall, I think this is an outstanding piece that dovetails well with Siemens messaging; however, the community’s feedback rings true—old, white men are not the future of the city. I’m looking forward to seeing what else TIME does with their sponsored video content—and how the city of Pittsburgh will continue to develop—along with a more accurate reflection of community diversity.

 

What sponsored/paid for content have you seen and actually enjoyed?

 

(Full disclosure, this story originally caught my attention because I’m from western Pennsylvania—just 2 hours north of Pittsburgh ^_^)

Life Is Far Better When You Extend A Hand: My Lean In Story

Speaking at Palms LA for the Lean In Second Anniversary Brunch

Speaking at Palms LA for the Lean In Second Anniversary Brunch (Image via Jessica Liu)

This speech was originally given as an off-the-cuff speech for the Lean In Beijing Second Year Anniversary Brunch at Palms LA in Liangmaqiao, and then posted on the Lean In Beijing WeChat account (follow at WeChat id: leaninbeijing) on Wednesday, July 29, 2015; please forgive any inconsistencies.

Life is far better when you extend a hand: The power of passing it on

I was just speaking with Alicia; her story inspired me, and made me think—we’ve all really been creating our own “lean in moments” for a long time. Every time we make a decision that takes courage, when we do something that’s a right decision for ourselves—we’re having a “lean in moment.”

I’ve now lived in Beijing for over three years, and my experiences with Lean In Beijing have helped me find and secure my “dream job,” and has allowed me to develop some of my most treasured relationships. But better still, these experiences and relationships have shown me the values, qualities, and character I want to express and embody in my own life.

The biggest takeaway in my Lean In experience is that life is far better when you extend a hand.

I read the original book Lean In while on vacation in the States, and loved it so much that I shared it with my Chinese girlfriends back where I was living in Beijing. I lent the book to friends and blogged about their reactions to the text. One of the original co-founders told me about a potential Lean In Beijing group forming when I told her about my blog. She immediately extended an invitation and said to come along to the first meeting—that’s the power of passing it on.

Life is far better when you extend a hand—and we are more powerful when we support each other than if we try to tear each other down.

The Nigerian-American feminist author Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, whose TED talk “We Should All Be Feminists” was famously sampled on Beyonce’s ***Flawless, says, “We raise girls to see each other as competitors.”

We can see this highly dramatized in Hollywood movies such as Mean Girls, but it can happen so much more subtly in our own individual relationships.

Have you ever gotten jealous over someone else’s success? Tried to compete with other women over a guy? We’ve all been in “Mean Girl” situations.

Through my experiences and personal relationships I’ve developed with these women (gesturing to the women in the room), I’ve seen the power of collaborative relationships—the strength in supporting each other, rather than working to tear each other down.

There are so many practical ways we can support each other—forwarding and circulating potential job posts, revising work such as resumes, speeches, and other writing, connecting friends with potential interviewers, mentors, and other valuable connections. Pulling people into your network not only supports them, but it strengthens you. One of the biggest ways that I’ve seen how we can “extend a hand,” and pass it on, is simply to be inclusive and loving, supporting others in the ways that we’d like to be supported.

We joke as a group, because we say in our first year as Lean In Beijing, all of us left our jobs or found new ones. I ended up finding my “dream job,” not only through the emotional support of the group, but also through their practical guidance and support.

I want to also emphasize and celebrate the importance of including men in this extension. It was the actions of many men that helped me lean in. In particular, it was the practical support of two former male coworkers that showed me what I needed to do to find the next right job for me on my career path.

Goofing at Palms LA for the Lean In Second Anniversary Brunch (Image via Lean In Beijing)

Goofing at Palms LA for the Lean In Second Anniversary Brunch (Image via Lean In Beijing)

One in particular was patient enough to offer his insights and advice through the job hunt. He provided me connections to different agencies. He helped review and revise my resume. When I did get the interviews, he had me call him and coached me through a mock interview process—what a way to lean in together. That’s the power of passing it on.

One of his favorite topics to discuss was the salary package—and how to negotiate to get what you want. He showed me why I needed to ask for more, how much I should be asking for, and how to effectively stand up for myself and my needs.

It was being on the receiving end of these selfless acts that today, one of my greatest joys is being able to pass it on–helping others by sharing the knowledge and insights I have gained thus far from being a young professional working abroad.

It’s an act of power to extend a hand—and passing on your own knowledge and experiences only allows for more gratitude and abundance for you.

Instead of seeing each other as competitors, we can see each other—the entire brotherhood and sisterhood of humankind—as collaborators and teammates as we lean in together.

Find others’ Lean In Stories and more about Lean In Beijing on their WeChat account; follow at WeChat id: leaninbeijing.

The original Lean In Beijing circle meets with Sheryl Sandberg in 2013

The original Lean In Beijing circle meets with Sheryl Sandberg in 2013 (Image via Lean In Beijing)

Jill Abramson and Mean Girls

“She’s not even that pretty.”

I was hanging out with a group of new and old coworkers, and I found myself openly trash-talking a girl who had left with a flippant remark.

“I mean she has a hot body, but her face is ugly.”

“Morning after guilt” is simply the best, said no one ever.

How did I get home?” “Where is my bike??” “They sharpied what on my face???”

Our firsts thoughts are often funny, unfiltered, and 100% where our minds should have been before we did the aforementioned guilty deed. In this case, there was no humor, just remorse.

How could I have said that?”

Last week, I had gotten into an argument with a close guy friend of mine about Jill Abramson and her dismissal at the New York Times. Our “debate”: Was gender an issue in her dismissal? Me: Duh. Editing while female. Wage gap. A male editor would never be criticized for being “pushy.” Him: Downplaying the role of gender, indicating there are other factors that go into a compensation package, and he was saying that was probably what happened in the Abramson case. Despite the many wrinkles of the Abramson issue, including the way it messily unraveled–to paraphrase Jessica Goldstein, embarrassingly to the Times, being a media organization–this is not the main point of my story here.

The point is, quoting Tina Fey as Ms. Norbury in the now cult-classic Mean Girls, “There’s been some girl-on-girl crime here.”

The morning after our night out, I guiltily realized that I’d put down that girl I hadn’t even properly met.

By saying those things, I was just perpetuating a cycle, making it okay to judge, enshrining “attractiveness” as the #1 criteria for that judgment.

As someone who lives and works abroad, with friends from around the world and with backgrounds different from my own, I’d like to think I’m a pretty open-minded, non-judgmental person.

I’d also like to think I’m a feminist. I’m involved with a women’s professional development group that strives to give women the tools they need to carve their own paths and define their own version of success and happiness.

But I was not exactly pleased with myself when I recalled, “She’s not even that pretty.”

Before the Abramson discussion, my guy friends had been sitting with a college-age girl, but by the time we left for a different joint, she’d left.  I hadn’t spoken to the girl, or even learned her name. And when we bounced to grab some late-night snacks, I threw out my dismissive critique without a second thought.

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“I mean she has a hot body, but her face is ugly.”

Given the social context, what was the role those words played? In other words, if I’m so open-minded and feminist, why would I tear this girl down?

With my new, successful female colleague to whom I said the comment, I was “strengthening ties,” bonding with her by making fun of someone else.

With my guy friends present, the comment was as much for them, I was cutting this girl down to elevate my own status. If she “wasn’t that pretty,” maybe they’d see me as “hot.”

But I was just threatened, insecure.

The language we use to describe others has a large, lasting impact.

A well-circulated, but little-known fact is that the movie Mean Girls was actually based off of the book Queen Bees and Wannabes: Helping Your Daughter Survive Cliques, Gossip, Boyfriends & Other Realities of Girl World by Rosalind Wisemen. In high school, I’d picked up the book, sitting unread on my mom’s desk, and couldn’t put it down. I remember gaining a set of new vocabulary for things I “knew” but couldn’t form into my own words. Concepts like the “Act Like A Man/Woman Box” helped me understand some basic theory about social and gender dynamics.

And the hilarious Mean Girls script Fey cooked up conveyed powerful lessons in feminism. The gym scene intervention where Fey addresses the high school’s female population is particularly representative of Wannabes, delivering an impactful message cleverly woven into the humor of the movie (I mean, we both know audiences wouldn’t want to know they were receiving a positive education, amirite?).

“You’ve got to stop calling each other sluts and whores. It just makes it okay for guys to call you sluts and whores.” (2:40)

Later in the movie, Lindsay Lohan as Cady Heron says, “Calling somebody else fat won’t make you any smarter. Calling someone stupid doesn’t make you any skinnier. All you can do in life is try to solve the problem in front of you.”

Describing this unnamed girl as “not pretty” with an “ugly face” is of course less insulting than calling her a slut or a whore… but it’s not far off. Debasing her in front of others to lift my own status, it just further enforces the idea that it’s okay for anyone to be judged by their level of attractiveness—and makes it “okay” for women to be judged by something other than their job performance.

By treating others the way you would like to be treated, you help to circulate a superior model of communication and of life.

By cutting others down, calling other women “sluts and whores,” you’re just making it harder for yourself—and for gender equality in the long run.

Follow me on Twitter @Ginny Tonkin.

How does a shampoo commercial do badass and touching? At. the. Same. Time?

Boss v. Bossy.

Persuasive v. Pushy.

Dedicated v. Selfish.

A recent Pantene Philippines commercial matches common descriptors for men with common-held perceptions about women — showing that what’s seen as leadership for men becomes detrimental when it’s a woman.

Set against a cover of Tears for Fears “Mad World,” the ad is thoughtful and inspiring quite opposite to the way most commercials ironically belittle their most powerful consumers.

Not only did Pantene win with this empowering video, they are championing the push to end outdated stereotypes about women with their new campaign #WhipIt.

Their twitter feed is peppered with great shareable messages like this.

Cheers to Pantene Philippines for creating a campaign that’s creative and empowering. Makes us want to whip our hair back and forth. Sorry. Had to.

“Don’t let labels hold you back. Be strong and shine,” declares the video’s pre-fadeout take-home message.

See the original above or on the Pantene Philippines YouTube page.

 

How much money did we raise? Beijing Marathon Update

Thank you so much to everyone who contributed to the fundraiser for United Foundation for Children’s Health!

Participants raised over RMB 200,000, which was RMB 50,000 over the year’s target. Donations will be used directly to pay for the costs of three orphan’s surgeries.

Read more from the news piece on the Beijing United Family Hospital and Clinics (BJU) website (which yes, I wrote).

(Internet being slow today; sorry I can’t post more interesting photos!)